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Every normal human being takes the initiative to form relationships with others continuously, and even always seeks to correct his path towards building more distinguished, more mature, and sometimes deeper relationships. In order for all of this to be achieved, we must understand the three elements that achieve successful relationships with others, which can be achieved. We depict it as a triangle of interconnected sides, each element of which affects the others.

The first aspect: self-understanding

Which consists of deep contemplation and evaluation of my actions and behavior towards others. My behavior has a reaction from others, whether the reaction is in the form of a grammatical belief or behavior towards me. Also, the realistic opinions of those I trust around me, including my friends and family, may have an important role in... Self-understanding

The second aspect: forming and managing the relationships themselves

1- Listening well to others is a significant milestone in forming and continuing relationships with them

2- Taking into account the feelings, attitudes, inclinations and interests of others is very important in continuing relationships

3- Your smile is the key to the hearts of those around you

4- Avoid arguments with others and enjoy your mistakes towards them

5- Do not be stingy in using gratitude, appreciation, praise and respect for those around you

6- Appreciate others, value their beliefs, and respect their differences from you

7- Initiate dialogue with them and break down the barriers between you and them

8- Ask and request, but do not command

9- Do not be arrogant or intrusive towards others

10- Follow the golden rule, “Treat people the way you want to be treated,” and the diamond rule, “Treat people better than you want people to treat you.

”For the third rib: Enjoy your life with others

Forming relationships with others breaks your fear and shyness, makes you more open and forms relationships, and makes you feel self-esteem without selfishness or pride. Rather, your life will be supported by others, which will build your personality and make you always feel comfortable, happy, and satisfied.

Through the integration of these elements and their cohesion together, the circle of relationships continues to expand and strengthen each other. Understanding oneself more + forming and managing relationships + enjoying your life with others.

                      Ayman Karam Basili