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Does a person need constant change?

 The inherent characteristic of human life is change, and if we focus on modernizing and developing the electronic devices that we use, it is more important to modernize and develop our personalities and our lives, whether this development is on the psychological, physical, or material level...etc. But of course the question remains: Is there change in my life? For better or worse?

Does the change come from the human being or the environment and society in which he lives? 

Just as the change in algorithms and programming language vocabulary brings about the modernization and development of electronic device programs, so the physical, mental, emotional and psychological changes of the human being combine with the intellectual, cultural and environmental changes that surround the human being to create continuous human change.

What are the most important aspects that can be updated and developed within a person?Professional aspects - material and financial aspects - social aspects - intellectual and mental aspects - spiritual aspects - 

Professional aspects: A person constantly learns through observing and applying the experiences of others, and develops by accumulating these experiences and developing new expertise in his field of work that distinguishes him.

Social aspects: Every stage of life opens up to him a new social horizon, as he begins as a child whose social scope does not go beyond the father, mother, and siblings, to open up little by little, year after year, to what is broader and broader than this narrow social world, and his social functions change between a son and then a husband. Then a father, uncle, uncle, then grandfather, in addition to his status as a colleague, friend, and partner between himself and others around him, and all these developments and changes in his social life change his life.

Intellectual and mental aspects: A person begins in compulsory education and then moves to the stage of selective education, learning that suits his inclinations, learning that develops him professionally, his favorite readings, and his exposure to cultural and intellectual materials, intentionally or unintentionally , all of which, of course, affect terrible changes in aspects of the person. One of these changes is keeping pace with the spirit of the times and global developments in all fields, whether this person is the recipient of development or its creator.

Psychological aspects: A person is like a sponge that easily absorbs all the feelings that surround it... joys, sorrows, fear, anger... and in dealing with these feelings, a person always needs maturity, adaptation, evaluation, and control of these feelings. Some succeed in this and others do not. It fails.

Spiritual aspects: A person’s life in his dealings with God is a special and distinct relationship that affects all aspects, especially knowledge, dealing, and understanding of the facts of matters...etc.But the development of spiritual life depends on a basic fact, which is the relationship of inhalation and exhalation. Faith enters a person in different forms. Like inhaling, and it comes out in dealing with another person like exhaling. Therefore, development and change in a person’s life depends on practice and living according to what we believe.

So change in human life is inevitable and natural, but how the latest version of human life is depends on how the person deals with this change that is within and around him, and even the latest versions may be better than the previous ones or have defects.

Ayman karam Basili